Busting Excuses
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive SOMEONE SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We allso use excuses like “I wanna lose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!” I really wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me who you no matter the excuse you are worth of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself!”
It’s important to remember that if you are not taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much easier said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I give myself mental health breaks, and that is why I think it is so important to share with you. I make the same excuses, and sometimes I need someone to look me in the eye and say “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break and breathe for a minute.”
At a boudoir photoshoot, you are able to breath, and love your self for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty truly comes from and it really lifts a huge mental weight off of you.
You need to take time for your self, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once!
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise/I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size.”
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT!
I will say this over and over again, but WHY do you have to be a certain size to love yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same?
I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then if you have health goals, have another photoshoot when you reach your goal to celebrate!
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
WRONG!
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot. Often times we lose tough with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and OK! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that sparkle back in us. I can show you that you have the that inside you somehwere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!
Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to where super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like that doesn’t show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them! Just reach out!
“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! We do offer payment plans! In order to book your shoot, there is a booking session fee, and after that we can set up your payment plan for the remaining so that it might make it much easier to book a shoot! If you have any questions about our payment plans, please reach out to me via email: beka@rebekahsuzannephotography.com
Also, don’t miss out on our VIP group of 4900 women who are also passionate about empowering women and body positivity! We do many games with prizes and will post sales and specials as well as body positive content.
